Thursday, February 27, 2014

Here are 10 Ways To Show A Woman You Care:
1. Keep your promises.
If you make her a promise, then make sure to follow through with flying colors. Rarely keeping big promises isn’t nearly as significant as keeping your end of the deal on day-to-day things. Let her know she can trust you even when things get a little tough.
2. Show her you appreciate her. 
I can’t think of any woman who doesn’t like to be told that she is appreciated. Write her a thank-you card for the little things she does. Be specific; it’ll let her know you took notice.
3. Tell her that she’s beautiful.
In a world filled with advertisements and pins showcasing the world’s definition of beauty, it’s always a good idea to remind your lady that you think she is beautiful. Not only will this give her peace in your feelings toward her, but it will also remind her that you see her beauty if even she doesn’t.
4. Leave her sweet notes and letters.
I’ve realized that the element of surprise holds a lot of weight a midst any relationship. Writing letters and notes “just because” is always a fun way to showcase your feelings on a daily basis.
5. Constantly pursue her. 
Don’t give up pursuit just because you’ve got some time underneath your belt. The relationships that will stand the test of time are the one that are founded on the idea of constant pursuit. Don’t let routine or comfort get in the way of things being fun, exciting, and new.
6. Put effort into date nights.
Don’t let date nights become stale and boring. Put effort into everything that you plan, and that includes simple trips to the movies or dinner. Plan a scavenger hunt, game night, or even something simple as ordering a nice dessert ahead of time. Make date night romantic and fun!
7. Surprise her with a gift or flowers.
Is there something your lady has been talking about wanting lately? This is the perfect opportunity to let her know you are listening when she talks. Go out to the local department store and get her those cute high-heels or bunch of red roses for the living-room vase.
8. Listen to her.
Nothing says, “I love you” like a man who listens to his lady. Take time to hear her when she talks. Whether it be about her problems or successes, taking time to sit and listen will speak volumes to her. Ask questions. Engage actively instead of listening passively.
9. Do things without her asking. 
Get her car washed, vacuumed, or even make her dinner. Do something without her having to ask you. Take initiative to plan things on your own accord, and show your lady that you are willing to take time out of your day for her.
10. Get to know her friends family. 
Truly care about your lady? Then get to know the people she claims are closest to her. If you make an effort to get to know your lady’s friends and family members, it will show her that you are invested and willing to reach outside your comfort zone on her behalf.
-Jarrid Wilson
Sometimes, I think you forget that I have feelings too.

Boyfriend should be the one who empowers their girlfriend but you just make me feel so insecure :|

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Suppose your monthly income is only RMB 2,000, you can live well. I can help you put money into five sets of funds. The first $600, second $400, third $300, fourth $200, fifth $500.
The first set of funds is used for living expenses. It’s a simple way of living and you can only be assigned to less than twenty dollars a day. A daily breakfast of vermicelli, an egg and a cup of milk. For lunch just have a simple set lunch, a snack and a fruit. For dinner go to your kitchen and cook your own meals that consist of two vegetables dishes and a glass of milk before bedtime. For one month the food cost is probably $500-$600. When you are young, the body will not have too many problems for a few years with this way of living.
Second set of funds: To make friends, expand your interpersonal circle. This will make you well off. Your phone bills can be budgeted at RMB 100. You can buy your friends 2 lunches a month, each at $150. Who should you buy lunch for? Always remember to buy lunch for people who are more knowledgeable than you, richer than you or people who have helped you in your career. Make sure you do that every month. After one year, your circle of friends should have generated tremendous value for you. Your reputation, influence, added value will be clearly recognized. You’ll also enhance your image of being good and generous.
Third set of funds: To learn. Monthly spend about RMB 50 to RMB 100 to buy books. Because you don’t have a lot of money, you should pay attention to learning. When you buy the books, read them carefully and learn the lessons and strategies that is being taught in the book. Each book, after reading them, put them into your own language to tell the stories. Sharing with others can improve your credibility and enhance the affinity. Also save up $200 per month to attend a training course. When you have higher income or additional savings, try to participate in more advanced training. When you participate in good training, not only do you learn good knowledge, you also get to meet like-minded friends who are not easy to come by.
Fourth set of funds: Use it for holidays overseas. Reward yourself by traveling at least once a year. Continue to grow from the experience of life. Stay in youth hostels to save cost. In a few years you would have travelled to many countries and have different experiences. Use that experience to recharge yourself so that you’ll continually have passion in your work.
Fifth set of funds: Invest. Save the $500 in your bank and grow it as your initial startup capital. The capital can then be used to do a small business. Small business is safe. Go to wholesalers and look for products to sell. Even if you lose money, you will not lose too much money. However, when you start earning money, it will boost your confidence and courage and have a whole new learning experience of running a small business. Earn more and you can then begin to buy long-term investment plans and get long-term security on your financial wealth being of yourself and your families. So that no matter what happens, there will be adequate funds and the quality of life will not decline.
Well, after struggling for a year and if your second year salary is still RMB 2,000, then that means you have not grown as a person. You should be really ashamed of yourself. Do yourself a favour and go to the supermarket and buy the hardest tofu. Take it and smash it on your head because you deserve that.
If your monthly income is at RMB 3,000, you must still work very hard. You must try to find a part time job. It will be great to find part time sales jobs. Doing sales is challenging, but it is the fastest way for you to acquire the art of selling and this is a very deep skill that you will be able to carry it for the rest of your career. All successful entrepreneurs are good sales people. They have the ability to sell their dream and visions. You’ll also meet many people that will be of value to you in the later part of your career. Once you’re in sales, you will also learn what sells and what not. Use the sensitivity of detecting market sentiments as a platform for running your business and in the identification of product winners in the future.
Try to buy minimal clothes and shoes. You can buy them all you want when you’re rich. Save your money and buy some gift for your loved ones and tell them your plans and your financial goals. Tell them why you are so thrifty. Tell them your efforts, direction and your dreams.
Businessmen everywhere need help. Offer yourself to do part time for any kind of opportunities. This will help to hone your will and improve your skills. You will start to develop eloquence and soon, you’ll be closer to your financial goals. By the second year, your income should be increased to at least RMB 5,000. Minimum it should be RMB 3,000, otherwise you would not be able to keep up with inflation.
No matter how much you earn, always remember to divide it into five parts proportionately. Always make yourself useful. Increase your investment in networking. When you increase your social investment, expand your network of contacts, your income also grows proportionately. Increase your investment in learning, strengthen your self confidence, increase investment in holidays, expand your horizons and increase investment in the future, and that will ultimately increase your income.
Maintain this balance and gradually you will begin to have a lot of surplus. This is a virtuous circle of life plans. Your body will start to get better and better as you get more nutrition and care. Friends will be aplenty and you will start to make more valuable connections at the same time. You will then have the conditions to participate in very high-end training and eventually you’ll be exposed to bigger projects, bigger opportunities. Soon, you will be able to gradually realize your various dreams, the need to buy your own house, car, and to prepare an adequate education fund for your child’s future.
Life can be designed. Career can be planned. Happiness can be prepared. You should start planning now. When you are poor, spend less time at home and more time outside. When you are rich, stay at home more and less outside. This is the art of living. When you are poor, spend money on others. When you’re rich, spend money on yourself. Many people are doing the opposite.
When you are poor, be good to others. Don’t be calculative. When you are rich, you must learn to let others be good to you. You have to learn to be good to yourself better. When you are poor, you have to throw yourself out in the open and let people make good use of you. When you are rich, you have to conserve yourself well and don’t let people easily make use of you. These are the intricate ways of life that many people don’t understand.
When you are poor, spend money so that people can see it. When you are rich, do not show off. Just silently spend the money on yourself. When you are poor, you must be generous. When you are rich, you must not be seen as a spendthrift. Your life would have come full circle and reach its basics. There will be tranquility at this stage.
There is nothing wrong with being young. You do not need to be afraid of being poor. You need to know how to invest in yourself and increase your wisdom and stature. You need to know what is important in life and what is worth investing in. You also need to know what you should avoid and not spend your money on. This is the essence of discipline. Try to avoid spending money on clothing, but buy a selective number of items that have class. Try to eat less outside. If you were to eat outside, do make sure you buy lunches or dinners and foot the bill. When buying people dinner, make sure you buy dinners for people who have bigger dreams than you, and work harder than you.
Once your livelihood is no longer an issue, use the remainder of your money to pursue your dreams. Spread your wings and dare to dream! Make sure you live an extraordinary life!
Famous theory from Harvard: The difference of a person’s fate is decided from what a person spends in his free time between 20:00 to 22:00 . Use these two hours to learn, think and participate in meaningful lectures or discussion. If you persist for several years, success will come knocking on your doors.
No matter how much you earn, remember to split your salary into five parts. Take care of your body so that it will still be in good shape. Invest in your social circle so that you will constantly meet new people where you can learn new knowledge from. Expanding your network will also have an important impact in how much you earn eventually. Travel every year and expand your horizons. Also keep abreast with the latest developments in the industry. If you follow this plan diligently, you will soon see big surplus in your funds.
Whatever happened in the past is over. Do not dwell on past mistakes. There’s no point crying over spilt milk. Everybody makes mistakes. It’s what you learn from the mistakes, and promising yourself not to repeat those mistakes that matters. When you miss opportunities, don’t dwell on it, as there are always new opportunities on the horizon.
Being able to smile when being slightly misunderstood is good upbringing. When you’re wronged and you smile with calmness, it is generosity. When you’re being taken advantage of and you can smile, you’re being open-minded. When you are helpless and you can do a philosophical smile, you’re in a calm state. When you’re in distress and you can laugh out loud, you’re being generous. When you’re looked down and you can calmly smile, you’re being confident. When you’re being jilted in relationships and you can smile it off, you’re being suave.
There are many people who are struggling to make ends meet. It doesn’t matter if you are rich or poor. There are lessons for all to learn from Li Ka Shing.
Its not that I want fairy tale love. Its just that I need to be convinced that your effort is endless. You still don't get it. Others do that continuously to their girlfriends, without the girlfriends asking, and they do not complain about it. Why do you have so much comment, when you didn't do anything?
有一天 跟我一朋友的男朋友聊天

他說:
其實有時我也不知道她怎麼了
莫名其妙就會吵 會鬧

我問:那你會怎樣?

他說:
三年多都是這樣哄過來的
她就像個小孩子 愛她就寵她唄

我問:不累嗎

他說:
失去她才是最累的
我無法想像那種痛
一個男人 條件再好
他沒有時間陪你 也是多餘的

愛情不可以望梅止渴的
抱著回憶就能度過每一天麼?

一個男人願意給女人多少時間
就是他有多愛她
我不會像以前那麼在乎你了
不會因為你的一句話而影響我的情緒
不會再因為你的一通電話而開心很久
不會時不時想看看你臉書動態看你是否過的好
不會再為你的心情而波動自己的情緒

因為這根本就是浪費感情 浪費時間
曾經我很愛你 但都是過去了

我不是累 只是覺得白費

butyoudon't

那個讓你流淚的
是你最愛的人

那個懂你眼淚的
是最愛你的人

那個為你擦乾眼淚的
才是最後和你相守的人
若要結婚
就嫁給一個視你如寶貝的人

他會寬容你的小毛病
原諒你的不周到

他能照顧你
彷彿你是他的小妹妹

他能溺愛你
彷彿你是他的小寵物

他能趕走你偶爾冒出來的壞情緒
他能抱著你睡覺給你做枕頭

冬天不嫌你冷
夏天不嫌你熱


你可能不太明白
我為什麼這麼看重跟你多吃一頓飯
跟你多看一場電影
甚至跟你多走幾步路 都會開心的一路蹦蹦跳跳

倒不是我有多愛吃那頓飯
多想看那電影 多想走那幾步路

只是因為做這些事是跟你一起啊
這些小事對我而言
就是你全部的陪伴啊



Saturday, February 22, 2014

再有钱的男人也比不上一个知冷知热疼你的男人重要 再多的爱马仕也抵不过 每天早晨跑几条街为你买豆浆油条的幸福 再好的甜言蜜语也不如你需要时陪在身边肩并肩的相伴 世界上最奢侈的人 是肯花时间陪你的人 对的人 总会遇到 无论在哪里

Thursday, February 20, 2014



女人出不出軌,取決於她的男人。

男人出不出軌,取決於有沒有機會。

不要去痛恨小三,正是小三證明了一場經不起考驗的愛情。

其實女人很敏銳,你愛不愛她,她一眼就能分辨出來
,只不過有的裝傻,有的自欺欺人,有的委屈求全,有的
決定和你一起演。

選愛人不需要太多標準,只要這三樣:不騙你,不傷害
你,陪著你。

原諒,並非是因為心寬,而是因為不捨。不原諒,未必
是因罪不可赦,只因心已離開。

但願有一天,你能幸福驕傲的對我說,無論疾病,無論
困苦,你會與我一世走下去,相依相偎,不離不棄。

當女人粘你的時候,說明她愛你,需要你陪。

當女人不再和你吵架,她已經不愛了。

當女人不再對你嘮叨,她已經死心了。

當女人不再對你流淚,她已經心寒了。

當女人不再對你撒嬌,她已經沒熱情了。

當女人不再要求你的陪伴,她已經失望了。

當女人不再與你談及未來的生活,她正在遠離你了。

當女人不再與你分享她的快樂,她已經不信任你了。

當女人不再計較你打不打電話,她已經漠然了。

當女人做任何決定都獨立處理,她已經不再需要你了。

當女人受到傷害一笑而過,她已經看透你了。

當女人在你身邊一直沉默,沉默,一直沉默,請你相
信,她已經毫無留戀的要離開了.

當男人明白,已經太晚了。

whyiloveyoumorethanyouloveme

9:33am now.
You just passed me my make up bags at my house, thanks for coming over so early.
I bet you're gonna be late for your work. 
Btw its good to see you early in the morning.
You didn't plan to kiss me eh :< 
I asked for it! :( What was that suppose to mean.
Its just basics isn't it? My parents, so many years of relationships, my dad will never stopped it.
You don't even want to do this to me, what about other efforts? :(
Why do I expect so much surprises and little efforts from you when its impossible :'(
How should I react when my boyfriend said that another girl was cute? Hmm. Idk. Maybe I am too sensitive in this, but who doesn't?

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

:)



Been asking myself nowadays, Accounting or Business. Mummy has been saying she'll leave the decision to me, but somehow during our conversation, the desire she wants me to take Accounting always popped out. Hmmm.

There shouldn't be any problem to us even if we might be in a diff country in future right? Tell me there mustn't be any problem :< Insecurity strikes again. But I should have faith, if we're true love. Thats how things go.
Love isn’t something that just happens to you. You make a conscious decision when you choose to love. 

I remember that one day, when my boyfriend and I were lying in bed. It was within the first few months of our relationship and we were crazy in love. He asked me this:
What if one day we don’t feel like this anymore? What if the excitement and passion are gone?

I never understood his question. For me the answer was easy. You just work on keeping it exciting. You decide how long it lasts.

I think too many people confuse falling in love with love. But it’s not the same.
When you fall in love, you do just that: you fall. It’s a passive act. This amazing and strong feeling overflows you. But you don’t have to do much yourself. You don’t have to force yourself to do anything. Everything comes naturally. It’s as there was some power doing things for you.
True love is what comes after that.
When you’re not falling anymore. When you’re standing, fully in control.
And now that things stop just happening to you, what do you choose? Do you choose to love or not?
I know this couple who has been married for 3 years now. And whenever I see them, they are radiating, full of love and appreciation for each other. Really inspiring. They wrote an article about love, and here is what he says about love:
What is love?
We can say we love someone for their smile, their intelligence or even their dress sense. What we love about those things are how they make us feel, and to me, that’s not love — that’s the “feeling” of love which changes, dulls over time and eventually dissipates, to return again when the wind blows.
What if that aspect of what you love were permanently gone? What if a “loved” one suffered a stroke and become immobile and unable to smile, lose their intellect or even the ability to dress themselves?
Would you stop loving them?
What if they did something to make you mad?
To me, love is a decision. A conscious choice to love is the decision to be kind, compassionate, affectionate and understanding towards someone.
The decision to be joyful in bringing someone happiness. And the more you love them, the more you would be those things for them. So even if the things they were that made you feel love for them weren’t there, it’s your choice to love them that counts.
You can’t always feel the love, but you can always make the choice to act with love.
To me love is exactly this. It’s a conscious decision.
Imagine you decide to lose weight. That’s your decision, your commitment.
You know what you have to do to lose weight. You need to work out, you need to eat healthy, drink more water, sleep more.
You will not always feel like working out, you might have other (much more interesting) plans, but you know that if you want to lose weight, you need to go to the gym. It will not always be easy, and sometimes maybe not even that enjoyable, but if you made a decision to lose weight and if you’re committed, you know what to do.
And you might not always want to stick to a diet, but you know if you break it, you will not lose weight. Your decision is followed by more decisions, and sometimes you have to stick to them despite the obstacles. You know the reward. A much better thing is just around the corner. And you know that you might have to struggle on the way, but your focus remains on that sweet feeling you chose for yourself.
Love is the same. It’s a choice.
There will be times when you’d rather act in an unloving or selfish way. You will not always feel attracted to your partner. You will not always want to deal with the drama and problems and wonder why you have to help them overcome their problems and support them. There will be times when you’d much rather go out with your friends then be there for your partner when they need you.
And in all these moments you make a decision: do I choose to love or not? And once you answer this question, you know exactly what to do.
There is another beautiful quote about love, and this one comes from 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People. By no means is it a book about relationships, and yet one of the best advice I ever got about love comes from there.
He says that people too often forget that love is a verb. They complain they don’t love their partners anymore.
Then he asks them: What do you do?
And they usually respond that nothing. They’re just waiting for the love to come back again.
But if you want love, than act with love, he says. What do people in love do? Do the same.  Touch and hug your partner. Get them gifts. Spend time with them. Appreciate them. Only this way can you make love re-appear in your life. Actively.
Life is not meant to be just pain and suffering. And certainly love is not meant to be a continuous struggle. I remember thinking many times in my relationship : It shouldn’t be that difficult. And I really don’t think it should. It should be much easier.
Said that, life is not all joy and excitement. You will hit obstacles. Just like you hit obstacles with everything you do in your life, be it work, traveling, buying a house,  you will hit obstacles with your partner, too. But how come we are ready to overcome them in any other area of our lives but love? How come when it comes to relationships the moment we experience difficulties we give up? You don’t quit your work if you make a mistake. Why would you quit your relationship then?
I see many people giving up saying that it wasn’t meant to be. Just because a difficult time came.
Maybe. But maybe it was meant to be. Maybe she or he was the one. Maybe there was a reason for this difficulty to show up.
Imagine two people deeply in love. And imagine that a woman was getting sick and one day would develop cancer. And she will lose her hair, her breast, she will become pale and white. Her beauty and light will disappear. She will need a strong man by her side to love her despite all.
So maybe that difficulty was for the man to make him stronger and to love her despite her looks and moods. Maybe it was to build a man’s strength so that in the moment when she will really need him, he will not have doubts, but strongly and lovingly be by her side, just like she needs him to?
Maybe they were meant to be but they just gave up too easily?
If you look at love as a conscious decision, you will love them no matter the obstacles.
When you fall in love, you’re given a very precious gift. It’s like a big box filled with all the amazing things you’ve ever wanted and wished for. And it’s all yours. But there is one thing that we tend to ignore. It’s that writing on the box: Fragile. You’ll be able to enjoy it as long as you take care of it. But if you shake it too much, you kick it around, and you neglect it, then you’ll break it.
If you believe in God, or Universe, think of falling in love as a gift from a higher power. They are showing you how amazing your life can be if there is love in it. But the higher power cannot love for you. Only you can do it. They are showing you something amazing and asking: Would you like that in your life? You decision to love (or not) is the answer to that question.
Make a decision to love. And then do simply that. Love

Forever


:')

我說不出來爲什麽愛你
但我知道
你就是我不愛別人的理由

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

1. Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.

2. When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go.

3. When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her.

4. Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.

5. Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

6. Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

7. Let her do the hang up after the call

8. Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

9. Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.

10. Give her the world.

11. Let her wear your clothes.

12. Let her know she's important.

13. Kiss her in the pouring rain.

14. When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Who's ass am I kicking babe?"

15. If your watching a movie, let her lay on your chest and put your arm around her. Don't always try to make out during a movie, its OK to just chill, unless she suggests otherwise.

16. leave us cute text/notes, especially when we are upset, this shows us that you really care about you and how we feel.

17. tell us we look beautiful when you mean it, don't keep that in mind only, we sometimes really feel down on ourselves and just need someone to say to us that we look beautiful. We really like it if you do. 

18. let us mess with your hair, its fun for us. 

19. Girls like to hold hands with guys when they are walking together. 

20. Girls like it when guys put their arm around them. It makes them feel loved and wanted. But don't do it when you are walking, because then its awkward. If you are standing somewhere or sitting down, put your arm around them.

21. If you are in a group of other girls with your girlfriend, make it seem like she is the only one you are interested in talking to. 

22. Pay attention to them. Girls will tell a guy they trust anything. Even if you don't care about what shes saying, at least pretend to be paying attention.

23. If a girl is clearly upset, don't ignore it and hope it goes away, talk to her and ask her about it . If she says " Nothing, i'm fine," but its obvious shes not, don't just say okay.. keep asking because that's what they want. They will tell you if they love you.

24. Girls will tell guys they love anything, so don't betray that trust. If they tell you something and they say don't tell anyone, don't. Or else you will lose that trust . And even if they don't say " Don't tell anyone," still, just don't. 

25. Girls don't take fighting very well. They either get really sad.. or they get pissed and get bitchy. So, don't start fights.

26. Girls like hugging guys for a long time , If she doesn't pull away from the hug, it means she wants to stay like that for a bit, so don't rush. You should enjoy it too. 

27. Don't ever lie to us; we always find out. 

28. Girls are pretty, but yours is ALWAYS the Prettiest! 

29. It's good to be sensitive, sometimes. 

30. If you did something wrong.. 
APOLOGIZE. 

31. We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it. 

32. Hugs and kisses must be given at all times. 

33. Don't make bets about us; we will ALWAYS find out. 

34. Never call your girl a bitch, because then she'll show you how much of a bitch she can be.


37. Don't cheat you freaking losers. If someone doesn't make you happy, LEAVE THEM! Don't cheat. COME ON NOW! 

38. Its not the big things, the big gifts, or the big surprises that mean the most- ask any girl (that isn't a money hungry cow)…and she'll tell you that its the small, sweet things that mean the most. 

39. If you know, or have a feeling, that a girl likes you, don’t EVER make fun of her, or say anything bad about her. If she finds out, she will be very hurt, and start thinking stuff like “how could I ever think I had a chance with him”. It keeps her thinking about that one thing forever, and it doesn’t make you look good either.

40. Don’t show off, it’s not cool. Looking stupid is cute, and girls would much rather that, than you trying to show off.

41. When it’s obvious a girl doesn’t look her best (it happens to all of us), say she looks pretty, especially if she is your girlfriend- although, it’s nice too even when she is just your friend OR if it’s pretty obvious the girl spent hours looking good for you, give her compliments - little things like that mean everything.

42. A lot of girls love to cuddle. But that doesn't mean that cuddling HAS to lead to other things.

43. Not every girl admits it, but its true- WE LOVE TO BE KISSED IN THE RAIN.

44. Yes, It’s true, it’s cute when guys show their emotions.

45. Remind your girlfriend you love her often. Say it whenever and wherever you can, and as much as possible. 

46. Give her compliments, such as "your beautiful", and "your gorgeous", and "your pretty". They mean a hell of a lot more than, "damn girl you are fine", or "you’re hot!" AND don’t feel stupid saying it either. Really. We do prefer the first ones better.

47. WE LIKE BEING CALLED GIRLS, NOT CHICKS, SHAWTY, HOTTIE OR ANY OTHER STUPID NAMES YOU HAVE. UNLESS, its some cute little nikcname or something you gave us, those are cute .

48. Writing poems or songs for girls, really is the sweetest thing ever. Even if it looks like a three year old wrote it, it still is cute.

49. If there are pictures of you two together or something, it IS always cute when you make it your display picture on msn. Or your profile picture on facebook, myspace, or any other account you have.

50. If there is a picture of you and your girlfriend together, and she comments on it and says she loves you, SAY IT BACK. OR be the first one to say it, it makes it even better that way.

51. When the time comes to break up with a girl, do it yourself, and do it in person. Let her down NICELY, and always explain why. NEVER ever get someone to do it for you. You may think it’s the way to go, for less tears and just making it easier for her, but trust us, it isn’t..

52. It’s hard for a girl to admit she likes you. So when she does, don’t act grossed out.

53. If you like a girl, TELL her. And don’t be afraid too. In most cases, girls are extremely understanding, and would really like to know who likes her and who doesn’t. It might even turn out she likes you back.

54. always stick up for a girl, especially if it’s a guy picking on her. It shows a lot in a guy.

55. Don’t mess around with our hearts.

56. If you like us, you like us. If you don’t, then you don’t. Make up your mind, and don’t take ten years doing it.

57. When a girl did something, that obviously made her feel stupid, or embarrassed, don’t make her feel even more stupid or embarrassed. Comfort us, and tell us its okay.

58. Kissing us on the cheek randomly is really cute. 

59. Girls get jealous. Very easy, though she might not show it.


60. We think you are just as complicated as you think we are.

61. when we say we are ugly, or fat or whatever, we aren’t waiting for you to agree - we are waiting for you to say, "NO you’re not fat, at all your perfect" or" NO you’re not ugly, your beautiful, don’t ever change."

62. When we like you, you are all we ever think about.

63. Make the first move. Sometimes, the girl is too shy to.

64. If you JUST meet a girl, and you’re saying gross sexual things to her, and she says something like, “go die” or “stop talking to me” leave her alone, she means that.

65. If we hang up on you, call back. If we continue, then you continue. 

66. Act like a real boyfriend should in front of your friends. It DOES impress us. 

67. When we cry, hug us. If we pull away, hold us tighter.

68. Girls love it when guys act shy. (not speaking for all girls, I LOVE it!)

69. When we say we love you, 100% of the time, we mean it with all of our hearts, and want you to mean it to.

70. When you're girlfriend is sick or sad, stay on the phone with her until she falls asleep.

71. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to beat the crap out of him.

72. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.

Kind of..

一個懂你的人 
能帶來一段彼此舒服的愛

一個不懂你的人
最終會讓你懂得一個道理

人生中''懂''比''愛''
更重要...

Monday, February 17, 2014

In this universe, 50% of sweet couple and 50% of boring couple, guess we just happen to fall in the second category. And on the Internet I just happen to see all the sweet couples' post, thats why I frown a lot. Hmm. If only you ever wanted to do something for me, without me telling anything.

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Before that you said it was due to your work you couldn't make any effort. Right now its been a week of no work for you and .. well. Things are kind of the same? :>

I just guess I shouldn't expect anything from you anymore.

Saturday, February 8, 2014

in a relationship with myself

To you who claims that you care about me.

I just hung up the phone, saying my motto, NI KAI XIN JIU HAO. Very good, you just continued your sleep peacefully.

SLEEP>ME.

Big clap for you should I?

You said you are afraid of being disappointed by the result if you would have to think further for our future and etc. Seriously bro? Stop making excuses. Its just that you care lesser. You even called your ex laopo. What am I to you after all?
I just don't know how to communicate with my boyfriend anymore..
I just used to throw out everything I want. But I am starting to keep things to myself. Everything.
Everyday while you're working there are so much I want to share about. But when you're home, I don't know, sometimes I just forgot what was I going to share or maybe I just got no much time to share everything, I had to choose which to tell, which to leave it to the other night, and sooner it wouldn't be shared cause I forgot. Idk.

We're just in a wrong relationship where we won't communicate anymore.
你會找到一个比我更好的人,而我不會再對一个人这么好了。
You know, I just kind of miss my pass two boyfriends who actually cared a lot more. Cared for every little details, everything, cared more than they care themselves. But yeah, just kind of miss the feeling of being cared. Lots of little actions, little surprises. </3 I am just kind of stupid to dumb these goodies. Although they may be not my type of ideal boyfriend, at least they are real to me.


Friday, February 7, 2014

Daydreaming

And well. Surprise doesn't mean you need to really come up here at 12am what. I understand you have your freaking curfew :(

It could be days. Surprise pop out. Surprise meet up. Cards. Flowers. DIY stuffs. Things. Anything you know. Food. Just basically anything.

I don't know. You are right, we are different people. I am those who are kind of similar to most of the girls who wish to be loved really by their boyfriends. But the difference is they just happen to have such sweet and cute boyfriend where they need not to tell what they need. I just happen to have you, where no matter how much I have to throw things out without caring my face, you still wouldn't do it.

Can we make it like you do it without me telling? :<
Can a guy just read my mind lol. Why so different always.

Came across you saying break up to me the other day because you think we are different. Hey, thats a stupid excuse. Its either you don't love me anymore. Cause nothing matters as long as you really love me isn't it? I still can't believe you threw out that to me. Heart broken to the cores. sighs.
Really. I believe one day you'll get the chance to read these posts. Please do not get mad or me do not break up with me and everything. I am just really upset and sometimes telling you these you'll never give me a pair of sincere ears and heart you always end up telling me how good you are when you do nothing!. I just basically bottle up myself nowadays in this relationship. Know you're working so I really try my best not to cry for these and try not to throw these things out so this is how I release the sadness.
Suddenly I remember how Steve used to always show up at college to wait for shayee out of no reason, or sometimes popped up with a drink or something else. I just don't get how I don't deserve you to sacrifice any single thing. You're just always in your comfortable zone, never take ant risk for me. never.

You told me you're gonna stop working for a week because of me. B please. You told me at first you would be working until4th of Feb only. Secondly, why can't you just not tell me and just surprise me on the 9th by showing up or telling me that you're actually not working?

Just really kind of fed up with this relationship. It gets really really nothing and...just basically nothing.

People always say you must always give in a relationship. I always have been thinking what to make what to do and everything to surprise you. Always been thinking maybe some day I should make some little cards or bake something ad everything. I always think where shall we go and what kind of pictures we should take and what should we do. Seriously. I give. I give way too much. I gain nothing. I am ... mentally tired. I am not convinced that Its worth it you know darling?


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